"Women should come with instruction manuals..."

How many times do you hear people saying that the opposite gender should come with instructions? I hear it a lot. I say it a lot, for that matter! I do still wish I could have a "Guide to Guys" that was actually insightful (in other words, not just the typical "guys only think about one thing at a time, and it's usually, well, you know...") but I don't foresee this happening.

Truth be told, it would be impossible to write an instruction manual for women (or men) because we are all so entirely different. I'm sure there are some similarities that seem to fit a majority, but even then, the most important fact is overlooked: Everyone has a history, a paradigm, unique to themselves which motivates or influences every facet of their being.

I'm getting wordy. Sorry.

My point is this: I can't write an instruction manual for women. I CAN write an instruction manual for Carol Jean. If there is someone out there who wants to understand how I think, why I do what I do, and how to interact with me, this is probably going to be a pretty good reference.

In other words, if there is a guy out there wishing to woo me, he should probably read this :) Don't worry, it will contain interesting information for everyone else, too.

Happy Reading!